Last week, we discussed the importance of preparing an Emergency Plan. This week, we’re diving deeper into how to communicate and document your wishes clearly, especially regarding healthcare and end-of-life decisions—so they’ll be honored when the time comes.
Starting the Conversation: Why It Matters
Conversations about healthcare and end-of-life decisions often begin after the passing of someone close to us—whether through a funeral, memorial service, or celebration of life. These events, though varied in tone and tradition, all mark the end of someone’s life. Reflecting on the way a loved one’s wishes were handled can prompt us to think about our own.
Questions to consider:
- Cremation or burial?
- Should I leave these decisions to my family or make these arrangements now?
- Is it time to schedule a pre-planning meeting with a mortuary?
Additionally, the nature of someone’s passing can raise questions about life-sustaining measures: What would I want if I were ever in a similar situation?
The Importance of Documenting Your Wishes
I’ve seen firsthand how families can struggle without clear directives in place. When a loved one is placed on life support, and no written instructions exist, the family often faces tremendous stress. Decisions become harder, and sometimes even family feuds erupt. If only the individual had documented their wishes ahead of time, these situations could have been handled with more clarity and less emotional turmoil.
How to Make Sure Your Wishes Are Honored
In Nevada, there are several ways to legally document your healthcare and end-of-life wishes. Here are the key options:
1. POLST (Physician’s Order for Life-Sustaining Treatment)
The POLST form is a legal document that outlines your preferences for life-sustaining treatment. In Nevada, it’s a bright pink form, signed by you, your physician, and your power of attorney (or another authorized individual). The physician’s office is responsible for uploading the document to the Nevada Secretary of State’s registry, which makes it accessible to healthcare providers in an emergency.
2. The Five Wishes Booklet
This comprehensive booklet helps you express your medical, emotional, and spiritual preferences. It’s a simple, legal document that can be signed with the help of a Notary Public. Though it’s not a replacement for a POLST, the Five Wishes form complements it by providing more personal and detailed instructions about how you’d like to be cared for.
3. Legal Documents (Will or Trust with Medical Directives)
Working with an attorney to create a will or trust allows you to incorporate medical directives into your legal plans. Be sure your attorney files your documents in the correct county where you reside. For example, if you live in Nye County but your attorney is in Clark County, confirm that they file everything with the right jurisdiction to ensure your wishes are honored.
Why It’s Crucial to Plan Ahead
While these conversations can be difficult, they’re a gift to your loved ones. By documenting your wishes clearly and thoroughly, you give your family the clarity they need during a time of emotional stress. It ensures that your preferences are followed and reduces the potential for conflict.
Take Action Today: Plan for Peace of Mind
Start the conversation today—whether it’s with your family, your primary care provider, or an attorney. Make sure your wishes are documented clearly, so your loved ones can honor your decisions without added stress or confusion.
What Will You Do Today?
- Schedule a meeting with your doctor to discuss POLST.
- Consider completing the Five Wishes booklet and getting it notarized.
- Consult with an attorney to include healthcare directives in your will or trust.
By planning ahead, you can provide your family with peace of mind and ensure your wishes are respected.
